1. You must realize that you are dealing with a bitch. Do not deny the obvious. Once you know that you are dealing with a self centered bitch who will walk all over you to get ahead, you gain a better perspective on the situation so that putting up your guard is much easier.

Ask yourself, when has a real mean bitch ever enhanced your life? The mean old bitch could be young, old, female or male. It doesn't matter what their persuasion, they are as commonly pesty as house-flies. If they are hovering near you, it is either because they want to suck up to you because you are more powerful than they perceive themselves to be or they want to test you to see if you are gullible to their style of living in a dog eat dog world where you are the prey.

Their sensibility and behavior are mental blocks to themselves. While sitting in their ivory tower named "I am better than you", they do not see what jackasses they really are. Watch out, close association with a bitch can rub off on you so stay clear if you do not want any of that nonsense.

2. Minimize conversation and contact with these creeps.

3. Sometimes, you have to talk to the bitches in your life. Expect rudeness if this is what the bitches deal. Know that they will not fall out of their pattern of mean and self centered attitude so maintain an attitude of expectation and wait for their rudeness. Really, they don't know how to be nice without an underlying motive.

When they are rude, point it out loud and clear. Tell them what it meant to you (implications, feelings aroused, etc.) and ask them if that is what they meant. Keep your voice steady because they want to hear a shaky tone.

You must call them on their bad behavior immediately. Not 10 years down the line. You must point out the bitch/bitches. Especially if there are other people who are not bitches around. That is what
you could call prime time.

The bad thing is these slick mean bitches rely on you keeping their behavior quiet so there is not much chance of the bad guys behaving badly in front of many others. If so, it would be only other bully heads.

They figure that you don't want other people to know how mean they are to you. Don't go for it, turn the tables on them. Make noise about their bad behavior as soon as they have shut their mouth from their latest stab.

You must not be outwardly angry because these individuals are pretty unstable and despite however bad their personal behavior is with you, they are big crybabies if you say anything that they can sensationalize. They do not expect you to keep a calm and emotionless attitude while pointing out their obvious recent faulty conversation and logic. In consequence, if things go your way, they may/will no longer find you such an attractive target and will move on.

Add some humor to your reply. If the blood sucking predator is not dangerous to some degree, that is.

See, these cold blooded fiends can do anything they want to walk over you if they are careful about not being caught while misbehaving. Your level of importance to any anti-social creep will determine how the creep treats you.

Credibility and image projection are important to many of these anti-social creeps. If you threaten their credibility or image projection process, you may bring out the big, bad bitch in them. Gauge the anti-social creep well before you point out their glitches, especially in conversation in front of others (who in turn must be gauged for their possible importance to the creep). The bitch is ultra sensitive
to its own needs.

A real problem with nasty bitches can be their capacity for malicious gossip and destroying the credibility of other people. So sometimes you just have to walk away and even that might not help you with the creep deluxe-ola type. The best advice is as soon as you spot a bitch, stay away and don't give 'em a chance to get you with their claws. See #2.

4. Do not give the bitch an inch. When the bitch asks about or for something, it is not always such a simple thing. You know what the bitch is, do you really want him or her to know about your personal life or anything else important to you? Know your boundaries and stick with your boundaries when you are in their presence.

5. If you must speak with them, prepare a mental script of what you want with yes or no questions whenever possible. You can sometimes guage their response by their current mood. Remember, the emotional life of the bitch runs their life.

If they are in a bad mood, probably, nay to anything that you say and if the bitch is in a good mood, things are still dicey. You could coddle them if necessary in a very precise way that you know will work with them. Usually, flattery, food or drink may work. Inside Tip: Do not ever become intoxicated in their presence.

6. When some bitches work in a group against you, keep your nerve and do not lose your cool. If you can manage these things, you are ahead of the game. From you, they want your emotional discomfort and to hear what you have to say in response so they can tear it apart together. What fun.

You do not have to stick around to hear what they have to say next so leave if possible. On the rare occasion that someone stops their hilarity, you may rejoice. Otherwise, if you are somehow stuck there, keep your chin up and know that they are the low down jerks of the type that is running the human race into the ground. From that point on, you do not owe them any loyalty.

7. If these creeps continue to be self-centered bullies who cannot stop their mouths to save their lives, then when the opportunity arises to pull the rug from beneath them, do so. By this time, they have done many bad, questionable and probably illegal things, so if you find the goods on them, tell it to the authorities. Do not look back and consider it a job well done.